Do your wife a favor, and pay attention
I have a few friends who really dont care if they have sex with their husband or not. Sure, it could be my friends and the weird hormones that turn us all in to a crazy bitch at a moments notice. It could be that they have lost interest in their man. It does happen to some.
Men, have you ever noticed how if you bring your wife flowers or do something unexpected, you get a favor in return? At least it is how my husband and I do things. He still opens doors for me, brings me coffee and sets it on my vanity while I am in the shower, he thanks me for being his wife almost every day. He does little things for me to show me how he cares about me.
These things do not go unnoticed. I try to be a great wife in return. I do things to make his day easier. Cooking, cleaning the house, getting things organized for his day, and just being here for him when he needs me. He only has to say he needs something, and I make it happen. I do this because he is a great husband. I do not hear many other women talk about their husband the way I talk about mine. Usually it’s just bitching and complaining, so I sit back and smile, knowing how lucky I am to have a man that gives me everything I need.
If you pay attention to what your wife likes, even small things like the coffee in the morning or putting gas in her car so she doesnt have to get out in the cold, these things add up in her female mind. They give you “man points” and get you goodies later 
Bring her flowers, do you know what kind she really likes? Are you sure its roses? Did you get any box of chocolate, or is it filled with her favorites? Pay attention to these little things and you will be a very happy man.
A Merry Christmas, Life Is Great
I have spent the last 6 days with family, both my husband’s family and my own. After seeing families that are divorced, separated, or just not happy, I am once again reminded of how blessed I am.
I have a child that is my angel. Smart, sweet, and very well behaved. Probably a better child than what I deserve. My son is the reason I try to be a better person.
I have a husband that I thank God for everyday. Meeting him and falling in love was the turning point of my life getting better and better. I can talk to him about anything, and he will listen. We may not always be the perfect happy couple, but I believe we are much happier than most couples you will ever meet. He is my soulmate, my rock of strength and unconditional love. Seeing him walk in the room is like seeing him for the first time, every time. There is a safety in his arms that I could never find anywhere else.
Being in our house together tonight, listening to the two of them playing is such a blessing to me. It’s a happiness and calm feeling that can’t be bought. No presents or gifts can give you the peace of a loving family.
User Women and Loving Men
There sure does seem to be a group of women who feed off of good hearted men. Why is it that a certain kind of woman can live their life using and abusing men? I have never figured out what that power is some women can hold.
My friend “G” has had his heart broken by his wife of many years. She cheated on him and moved out. He was heart broken, he is a very sweet man. After being apart for a short time, she called him and wanted to meet. To discuss getting back together. They met, talked, the agreement is totally amazing to me…
She and their two children will come back home to him. She will still see the other man because she says she loves him. What kind of shit is that? She needs help with the children, thats why she is coming back. “G” has the biggest heart to take care of the children, knowing what is going to happen. He will be the man of the family, be the father and the responsible one, the provider for the family. The other man will just be waiting for her to show up for sex, for the fun parts. That isnt a man, that’s a parasite that sucks what they want out of a woman and move on to the next when this one seems tired and old. What do you see in a man that only wants you for sex, not caring where the hell you are the rest of the day. Just as long as you show up for your meaningless fuck session, he will let you show up again tomorrow.
How do you do that? How do you keep one for security, and one for sex. How can you be so heartless? That’s about as greedy as you can be. How do you get the power to get two men to give you what you need. She hasnt figured out 2 things:
1. The good man will find a woman that loves him with all her heart. He doesnt know it now, but the women he was meant to be with is not the bitch draining the life out of him. He will remarry one day to the woman he deserves.
2.The loser man will be done with her in a few months, when he grows tired of her. He’ll trade her in for a newer, younger model. It’s what the scum bags of the world do. If you are only for sex, you can be replaced quickly.
In Italy? Maybe you will be lucky enough to run into “G” and fall in love…..
Women And How They See Themselves
Watching what I eat, no soft drinks, rarely ever eating in a restaurant because of large portions served, oatmeal every morning instead of the fat filled breakfast I’d love to have. I go to the gym and bust my ass on every horrible piece of equipment they have. I have even started running. I am the ideal weight for my height, according to the Doctor.
So Why the hell am I so critical of my body? Actually I can tell you why. It’s because I’m a typical female. Men have it very easy in this department, they can be 400 pounds, hairy, smelly,bald and ugly – but when they look in the mirror they see one hot looking stud. DAMN IT! I don’t shy away from being naked in front of my husband, but I still am very critical of myself. I have a sister in law that is my height and weight. I think she looks great. I guess women are just wired that way. It’s very rare to find a woman that is happy with her body. We usually just call those women vain… instead of wishing we had the strength to think that way too.
I think the upcoming trip and being around others while naked will help me. A wide variety of people will be there, from the fit and trim to the out of shape. Seeing that everyone else has body flaws will give me some perspective. It’s a weird thing to explain. I’m not afraid of being nude, I’m just not happy with certain parts of my body. Not to unhappy to stay home…… I love that I have long legs, I get much attention from them. But I also have thick thighs from being active for a good portion of my life. I’m not the model thin girl that many tall girls are. I guess thicker more muscle toned thighs are better than thin and not toned. Once I get over that, we will move on to the whole “barefoot phobia” I have….
I HATE TO BE BAREFOOT… Not just a little dislike, it freaks me out. I never wear flat shoes, so I will be the tall girl in heels by the nude pool. Nothing like meeting new people when most will be nipple level to me….or lower…..
How do you keep from staring? I think in general I will be fine with the not staring thing. What if a guy is talking to me that has a giant dick??? I’m absolutely sure I will have to admire…..or stare….whatever you want to call it I’m not even close to quiet when I drink, so I’m going to have to remind myself not to make loud announcements that there is a massive cock providing shade for us. I keep picturing myself yelling something like “Holy Shit! The Human Tripod is here!” And as a typical male, all men within ear shot will think I’m talking about them. And why? Because men can get naked and be totally at ease and proud of who they are. My goal is to have that kind of bravery by hour #2 by the pool.
Nudity, Sex and Instant Messages from Italy
You know, I have always been good at finding new friends and meeting new people. I met a new friend through a Yahoo Group the other day. He is the funniest guy to talk to, some things are definitely lost in the translation. Good thing he knows English, because heaven knows we Americans aren’t as bi-lingual as the rest of the world…
After talking for a few days, he asked for a pic of me. We had been through the trading pic thing of those pics your would show your mother. He meant a *giggle* FUN pic. So after taking about 20 or so, i decided on the one I was happy with. You know how women are, it was all about lighting, angle, centered, etc. What can I say, sometimes I have bouts of OCD. I sent him a pic of my chest. I must say, 2 years ago I would have never done that, I had implants done because I was starting to look like the room was hot and I was melting, not how a girl wants to look.
I got some very happy reviewes from my new friend in Italy. Makes me feel better to get such reviews from a man that is not my husband. I know my husband loves me, there are women all over the world that will never have the kind of man I have. But I also think his view of me is skewed by love, so he will naturally say that I am beautiful. For some crazy reason it sounds like a bigger compliment from a man half way around the world that can be as truthful as he wants. After all, he doesn’t have to worry about making me mad, not like I’m in his bed tonight! I told my husband about the pic I sent. He was turned on by this, he’s over there about ready to explode with excitement. The plan for tonight is to go home and play with the camera in bed tonight, send my new friend some more fun pics. So “G”, I will be sending you some new pics soon, stay warm in Milano and we will be snapping pics in your honor 
So what is the thing that most men thirst for? Is it an anything as long as she’s naked thing? My husband has a thing for my legs, and he also has a thing for my hands. Some men are boob men. It entertains me to hear what really turns men on, it seems to be such a wide variety. I guess everyone has their favorites. When I was a single girl, anyone taller than me got my attention first. Being a tall girl, I love the idea of a man that is able to throw me around and play like it should be done. And to my husband, who I know is going to read this, The camera battery is fully charged…And I will be too
Yet Another Day Of Vacation Planning…
So here it is, 3 months out from our Hedonism 3 trip. It sure makes it easier going to the gym knowing I will be in bright sunshine nude for a week. Puts the whole body image thing in perspective also. After spending countless hours searching for trip reports and pics online of those who have already been, the anticipation is killing me.
We have also emailed and IMed many that are going during the week we are going to be there. Seems to be quite a few “Newbies” going during the same time as us. The same questions always arise. Will everyone stare? Will I chicken out? Will I blend in, or will everyone look better than me? We’re staying on the nude side, seemed to be where the best party spots are (Imagine That). The nude thing is getting much better for me. Hedo seems to be all about attitude. I’ve got more than my fair share of that, especially when the Red Stripe starts to flow! Afraid to be nude? Not a problem, “When in Rome,”. What my problem is people who are barefoot where they shouldnt be. Sit next to me at the bar naked, “hey friend, nice to meet you! Great tattoo, do you know for a fact what that tribal stamp means, or are you probably walking around telling people you are a chronic bed wetter? (Dumbass, you put shit permanently on your body on the word from a fellow dumbass that your tribal tattoo says you are Strong and Fertile. You’re not part of a tribe, you work at Wal Mart) What is going to bother me is people who are going to walk around barefooted all week (Restaurants, lobby, etc) like its the Hatfield’s and McCoy’s Nude Getaway. Put some shoes on Cletus, you can be a dirty redneck when you get home.
I am looking forward to taking in the whole Hedo experience. I’d like to find 2 girls for my husband to have a little FMF playdate. Why not me in there too? I don’t share well. I’m not waiting my turn for dick, and I’m not doing anything with another woman either. I am not a vegetarian, I require meat. Thanks for the offer, but I’m gonna have to pass. I’ll be at the bar drinking Red Stripe giving hell to the idiot with the Tribal Tattoo He can give me the play by play when he gets the smile chipped off his face. As far as taking care of me, we have discussed finding another guy to take to our room with us. I’m gonna have to say, That beats the hell out of bingo at the next resort over
So there it is kids, I will keep you updated with plans for the upcoming hijinks! You gotta love a good time with fun people.
