Do your wife a favor, and pay attention
I have a few friends who really dont care if they have sex with their husband or not. Sure, it could be my friends and the weird hormones that turn us all in to a crazy bitch at a moments notice. It could be that they have lost interest in their man. It does happen to some.
Men, have you ever noticed how if you bring your wife flowers or do something unexpected, you get a favor in return? At least it is how my husband and I do things. He still opens doors for me, brings me coffee and sets it on my vanity while I am in the shower, he thanks me for being his wife almost every day. He does little things for me to show me how he cares about me.
These things do not go unnoticed. I try to be a great wife in return. I do things to make his day easier. Cooking, cleaning the house, getting things organized for his day, and just being here for him when he needs me. He only has to say he needs something, and I make it happen. I do this because he is a great husband. I do not hear many other women talk about their husband the way I talk about mine. Usually it’s just bitching and complaining, so I sit back and smile, knowing how lucky I am to have a man that gives me everything I need.
If you pay attention to what your wife likes, even small things like the coffee in the morning or putting gas in her car so she doesnt have to get out in the cold, these things add up in her female mind. They give you “man points” and get you goodies later 
Bring her flowers, do you know what kind she really likes? Are you sure its roses? Did you get any box of chocolate, or is it filled with her favorites? Pay attention to these little things and you will be a very happy man.
