Do your wife a favor, and pay attention
I have a few friends who really dont care if they have sex with their husband or not. Sure, it could be my friends and the weird hormones that turn us all in to a crazy bitch at a moments notice. It could be that they have lost interest in their man. It does happen to some.
Men, have you ever noticed how if you bring your wife flowers or do something unexpected, you get a favor in return? At least it is how my husband and I do things. He still opens doors for me, brings me coffee and sets it on my vanity while I am in the shower, he thanks me for being his wife almost every day. He does little things for me to show me how he cares about me.
These things do not go unnoticed. I try to be a great wife in return. I do things to make his day easier. Cooking, cleaning the house, getting things organized for his day, and just being here for him when he needs me. He only has to say he needs something, and I make it happen. I do this because he is a great husband. I do not hear many other women talk about their husband the way I talk about mine. Usually it’s just bitching and complaining, so I sit back and smile, knowing how lucky I am to have a man that gives me everything I need.
If you pay attention to what your wife likes, even small things like the coffee in the morning or putting gas in her car so she doesnt have to get out in the cold, these things add up in her female mind. They give you “man points” and get you goodies later 
Bring her flowers, do you know what kind she really likes? Are you sure its roses? Did you get any box of chocolate, or is it filled with her favorites? Pay attention to these little things and you will be a very happy man.
A Merry Christmas, Life Is Great
I have spent the last 6 days with family, both my husband’s family and my own. After seeing families that are divorced, separated, or just not happy, I am once again reminded of how blessed I am.
I have a child that is my angel. Smart, sweet, and very well behaved. Probably a better child than what I deserve. My son is the reason I try to be a better person.
I have a husband that I thank God for everyday. Meeting him and falling in love was the turning point of my life getting better and better. I can talk to him about anything, and he will listen. We may not always be the perfect happy couple, but I believe we are much happier than most couples you will ever meet. He is my soulmate, my rock of strength and unconditional love. Seeing him walk in the room is like seeing him for the first time, every time. There is a safety in his arms that I could never find anywhere else.
Being in our house together tonight, listening to the two of them playing is such a blessing to me. It’s a happiness and calm feeling that can’t be bought. No presents or gifts can give you the peace of a loving family.
User Women and Loving Men
There sure does seem to be a group of women who feed off of good hearted men. Why is it that a certain kind of woman can live their life using and abusing men? I have never figured out what that power is some women can hold.
My friend “G” has had his heart broken by his wife of many years. She cheated on him and moved out. He was heart broken, he is a very sweet man. After being apart for a short time, she called him and wanted to meet. To discuss getting back together. They met, talked, the agreement is totally amazing to me…
She and their two children will come back home to him. She will still see the other man because she says she loves him. What kind of shit is that? She needs help with the children, thats why she is coming back. “G” has the biggest heart to take care of the children, knowing what is going to happen. He will be the man of the family, be the father and the responsible one, the provider for the family. The other man will just be waiting for her to show up for sex, for the fun parts. That isnt a man, that’s a parasite that sucks what they want out of a woman and move on to the next when this one seems tired and old. What do you see in a man that only wants you for sex, not caring where the hell you are the rest of the day. Just as long as you show up for your meaningless fuck session, he will let you show up again tomorrow.
How do you do that? How do you keep one for security, and one for sex. How can you be so heartless? That’s about as greedy as you can be. How do you get the power to get two men to give you what you need. She hasnt figured out 2 things:
1. The good man will find a woman that loves him with all her heart. He doesnt know it now, but the women he was meant to be with is not the bitch draining the life out of him. He will remarry one day to the woman he deserves.
2.The loser man will be done with her in a few months, when he grows tired of her. He’ll trade her in for a newer, younger model. It’s what the scum bags of the world do. If you are only for sex, you can be replaced quickly.
In Italy? Maybe you will be lucky enough to run into “G” and fall in love…..
Hot Night With The Hubby
My husband is a very sexy man. I can’t tell you how often I just take in the vision of his body and thank my lucky stars that I get to touch that kind of body whenever I want. Yesterday was my day off, as usual he called to check in with me and ask if I was having a good day. I told him that I had to go, I was going in to my appointment for my bikini wax. *total silence* “Oh, well, can’t wait to check it out tonight” I could hear the ear to ear grin on his face.
The rest of the day seemed to drag on forever, waiting for him to come home. I love that we still thrill each other like we did when we met 9 years ago.
The sexiest part of last night? Watching the outline of his muscles in his shoulders and arms as I could see the outline of his body over me in the dark room. The thought of it makes we want to relive it over and over again in my head. His legs have the most amazing shape. Thick strong thighs that meet a fantastic ass that I cant keep my hands off. His calves are muscular, the kind of legs that you can see them flex when he walks away. Makes it hard to decide if I should stare at his ass or his legs when he walks away, way too much candy to enjoy at one time…
I am a very happy woman.
