Do your wife a favor, and pay attention
I have a few friends who really dont care if they have sex with their husband or not. Sure, it could be my friends and the weird hormones that turn us all in to a crazy bitch at a moments notice. It could be that they have lost interest in their man. It does happen to some.
Men, have you ever noticed how if you bring your wife flowers or do something unexpected, you get a favor in return? At least it is how my husband and I do things. He still opens doors for me, brings me coffee and sets it on my vanity while I am in the shower, he thanks me for being his wife almost every day. He does little things for me to show me how he cares about me.
These things do not go unnoticed. I try to be a great wife in return. I do things to make his day easier. Cooking, cleaning the house, getting things organized for his day, and just being here for him when he needs me. He only has to say he needs something, and I make it happen. I do this because he is a great husband. I do not hear many other women talk about their husband the way I talk about mine. Usually it’s just bitching and complaining, so I sit back and smile, knowing how lucky I am to have a man that gives me everything I need.
If you pay attention to what your wife likes, even small things like the coffee in the morning or putting gas in her car so she doesnt have to get out in the cold, these things add up in her female mind. They give you “man points” and get you goodies later 🙂
Bring her flowers, do you know what kind she really likes? Are you sure its roses? Did you get any box of chocolate, or is it filled with her favorites? Pay attention to these little things and you will be a very happy man.
A Merry Christmas, Life Is Great
I have spent the last 6 days with family, both my husband’s family and my own. After seeing families that are divorced, separated, or just not happy, I am once again reminded of how blessed I am.
I have a child that is my angel. Smart, sweet, and very well behaved. Probably a better child than what I deserve. My son is the reason I try to be a better person.
I have a husband that I thank God for everyday. Meeting him and falling in love was the turning point of my life getting better and better. I can talk to him about anything, and he will listen. We may not always be the perfect happy couple, but I believe we are much happier than most couples you will ever meet. He is my soulmate, my rock of strength and unconditional love. Seeing him walk in the room is like seeing him for the first time, every time. There is a safety in his arms that I could never find anywhere else.
Being in our house together tonight, listening to the two of them playing is such a blessing to me. It’s a happiness and calm feeling that can’t be bought. No presents or gifts can give you the peace of a loving family.
Hot Night With The Hubby
My husband is a very sexy man. I can’t tell you how often I just take in the vision of his body and thank my lucky stars that I get to touch that kind of body whenever I want. Yesterday was my day off, as usual he called to check in with me and ask if I was having a good day. I told him that I had to go, I was going in to my appointment for my bikini wax. *total silence* “Oh, well, can’t wait to check it out tonight” I could hear the ear to ear grin on his face.
The rest of the day seemed to drag on forever, waiting for him to come home. I love that we still thrill each other like we did when we met 9 years ago.
The sexiest part of last night? Watching the outline of his muscles in his shoulders and arms as I could see the outline of his body over me in the dark room. The thought of it makes we want to relive it over and over again in my head. His legs have the most amazing shape. Thick strong thighs that meet a fantastic ass that I cant keep my hands off. His calves are muscular, the kind of legs that you can see them flex when he walks away. Makes it hard to decide if I should stare at his ass or his legs when he walks away, way too much candy to enjoy at one time…
I am a very happy woman.
Bikini Waxing For The Hubby
As an obvious fear, I was always afraid of getting a bikini wax. I had heard horror stories about the pian and embarrassment of geting such a service done. So after too many years of razor burn and stubble, I broke down and made a waxing appointment.
I gotta tell ya, pain may be an understatement of your first visit. A secret of bikini waxing is go often, keep it “slick” at all times. When there is less to wax, there is less to torture yourself with. A definite plus is that it keeps your guys attention when he knows you are always slick. My husband loves it, and he gets that gleam in his eye when I tell him I have a waxing appointment. Over the last several visits, I have got much more done. I’ve pretty much got it down to the “landing strip”. So as I look at Syndey’s newest handy work on my bikini wax, I’m aware of the night that is to come. It gets my hubby really hot and horny to know I’m freshly waxed. In fact, just talking about this is getting me wet awaiting his arrival home this evening. By the way honey, I know you’re reading this at work. So I hope you’re ready to throw me down and give me all that thrills me so very much. You know just how to fuck me and make me always beg for more each night we get together. For those of you men reading this with a woman of your own: Go get her flowers on the way home, go home and kiss her like you haven’t seen each other in weeks. Give her a ride tonight that will make it impossible for her to concentrate at work tomorrow. The unexpected sexual encounter is always the best!
So tonight I’m sure there will be an inspection from my husband :-). I’m a lucky woman.
Sex With Your Husband Is That Bad? EEK…
Ok, So I know I live in the kind of Suburban neighborhood that is full of polo shirts and stay at home moms. I still heard something from one of the little stuffy straight laced wives that really threw me off. We got on the subject of sex, as most women do when they get together and have a few drinks. Let’s call her “Lynn” Lynn said she was disappointed by sex with her husband on their wedding night, she was a virgin. They had dated all through college and NEVER HAD SEX(Freaking amazing to me). Anyways, She said”This is it? This is what I waited for all this time?” WOW, pretty shitty performance when she has nothing to base it on and you still suck in bed. Just from the excitement alone, the whole “waiting on it and wedding night jitters” it should have been better than that. She needs a good vibe and a bottle of tequila, the hell with that dude. If you can’t bring it when she’s never even seen it before, Maybe you should have been practicing the whole time you were dating. You know, get you up to a mediocre lover for the big event.
My husband and I made it about 5 hours after meeting before he had me under the chandelier in his dining room doing nasty things with a bottle of lube and a smile like “where the hell have you been my whole life?”
Not to mention the added bonus of seeing his condoms of choice were Magnums, YAY ME! 🙂 Being a girl who had got the chance to sample quite a few men, I had some standards that most men didn’t quite live up to. Most likely why my husband really rocked me that first night. He worked like he was trying out for the lead in a porn movie. Two Snaps Up for a man who can bring it like he does! It’s been almost 10 years since we met, and he still comes up with new things that take my breath away and leave me giggly like a high school girl. See, that’s the way sex is supposed to be, not two people making an appointment after Bunko on Friday night. That sounds like hell to me….
Panty-Free Work Day
Funny how you can mess with someone so much over such a small article of clothing, or the lack there of. We have had a great morning flirting back and forth on emails, and the occasional flash from under my desk. I love my husband, i love that we can have fun with each other and be so sneaky about it. I love that he knows how to flex a muscle, wink, or use a tone of vioce that makes me shiver. He can put butterflies in my stomach just like he did in those first weeks of our dating. I love that he can make the most romantic sweet, heart felt evening, just like the rest of the world goes away. I love that he can rock my world and leave me totally exhausted with his awesome body.
Oh, Update on the Panty-Free Work Day… He knows I’m over here typing on a new blog, but he doesnt know what about. Combined with that and a few “Basic Instinct Movie” leg crosses, he seems to be pretty entertained over there. Frustrated, but happy 🙂 We have an ongoing game of teasing each other, and we fully enjoy it!
Adventures In My Dirty Thirties 